Do most people forget about the things you have done for them and say you are selfish?

No....they dont forget. To constantly have someone at their bec & call, there to do favors for them, there to do the right thing, always be there, and then to know how to keep them there......it is called "manipulation strategy." People will make you feel selfish so that you continue to delve out more favors. hahaha. You need to stop being there for them when they play that way. The moment they deal the "you are so selfish" card....... when you have been there for them all along....... it's time to punch out and call it a day. Perhaps........ drop back 10 yards and punt the football. :))