Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Im in a hopeless situation and i need help!?
Being in a position of dependence on family members is always difficult. You are very much at their mercy,and a certain humility is in order. That being said, you do need to defend yourself from bullying behavior that often manifests itself in these situations. It is in everyone's self interest to get along. Mutual respect is absolutely necessary. When you are not being respected, you need to nip that behavior in the bud by letting them know how you deserve to be treated. A time will come when your baby is the breadwinner, and the rest of you are in failing health that comes with old age. It is in the interest of all to build trust and nurturing in your family relationships. You can be confrontational and humble at the same time by saying "You hurt my feelings when___________________. I don't consider that acceptable behavior." This economic collapse is hard on all of us. Hang in there. Life is always in flux, and this situation will ultimately change as life progresses. Try to make the best of what you have, and never give up on the future. Acknowledge that the feeling of worthlessness, and hopelessness are real feelings, but they are not actually real. You are NOT worthless, and life is NOT hopeless. Your baby loves you and needs you. This serves as a constant reminder of your worth. You and your baby are precious. Cherish yourselves.
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